Do you remember being that new mom in the club? Your child newly diagnosed, your eyes welling with with tears. Frantically taking notes, writing down suggestions about therapies, doctors...trying to stay centered in a new world.
I asked her where she lived and was relieved by her answer...she was in one of the best school districts in the area. Not the one we live in.
I told her never ever give up, that anything and everything is possible. I told her that once upon a time I was told my son was autistic. Then I was told he wasn't autistic enough. I mentioned the problems with the schools, teachers, courts and how my son was treated. I told her never give up because she will know her child best, because anything and everything is possible. I told her that I am now the mom of a young man that is advocating for himself, a straight A student, is compassionate and witty, has friends and goals. And besides, all the cool kids have autism.
But yeah, I remember being that new mom, and so do all the others that meet the second Sunday of the month.
Come join us.
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That is awesome that you were taking that new mom under your wing. You rock! (but then again, I always say you rock, cuz you do!)
We've just passed the 1 year mark from getting the diagnosis. Your post brought back all the confused and overwhelming feelings of that period. I'm so glad you were able to give her hope - it seems everything you hear when you first start learning about autism is so dire. Next time you see her, give her a hug from me. ;)
"all the cool kids have autism" - love that!
But it's different for her - she has you.
Oh, she has much much more than me! I am just in awe at what our community offers now in the way of activities for autistic/asperger kids...when Evan was little there wasn't special gym time at the gymnastics center, there wasn't horse therapy...on and on...the mom's with the younger kids can give her the now...I can show her the future!
I'm brand new to your blog, but this post brought tears to my eyes. My two year old was recently diagnosed. Thank you for your words - we'll never give up.
Everyone is right, Oshy! :)
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